Monthly Archives: April 2012

A Letter to C on His 1st Birthday

My sweet little C turns one this weekend, so I’ve written this letter to him to commemorate the occasion.

Happy 1st Birthday, my C-Monkey!  We are so happy that you’ve come into our lives and filled it with so much love and adventure.

You are very investigative.  When you were very small, you carefully watched everything and everyone around you.  Now, you get into everything!  You always need to inspect everything to figure out what it is, how it works and even how it tastes.

You have an adventurous personality.  Nothing scares you.  If we let you, you’d crawl right off the edge of our bed or climb right into the toilet.  You’re not afraid of going into a dark room to investigate everything that’s inside of it.  In fact, you often close the door behind you!

You’re always on the move.  As a small baby, you’d wave your hands and legs wildly in excitement.  You still do this when we’re getting you dressed!  For a long time, you moved around via the army crawl.  You’ve been able to crawl for a while, but our theory is that you’ve preferred the army crawl because of our concrete floors.  This week, you decided to throw caution and comfort to the wind and start crawling to get places faster.  And boy, you are fast.  Your knees are super red by the end of the day, though!  You’ve also been cruising, walking along furniture, for a few months.  You’ve loved to stand ever since you were a month old, and cruising is by far your preferred method of transportation.  I am so looking forward to the day you take your first steps, because I know you will be ecstatic to be able to walk on your own.

You enjoy making noise.  A lot of noise.  Loud noise.  You like banging toys together, babbling and, most emphatically, screaming.  You know, when I was in the hospital and had just received my epidural, the labor pains started to subside.  I sent your dad out to get himself some dinner while I rested.  The nurse was so surprised when I was just lying there in silence.  I told her that I was enjoying it, because soon my life would never be that quiet again.  I had no idea how true that statement would become. ;)

Dada makes you laugh harder than anyone else in the world.  I love watching you two play together and hearing your giggles when Dada tickles you.

You give Mama more hugs, kisses and cuddles than anyone else in the world.  I enjoy each and every one of them, because I know the day will inevitably come when you’ll be embarrassed to kiss me.

It took you 11.5 long, arduous, exhausting months to start sleeping through the night.  We started sleeping in the living room so that you could have your own bedroom, and it was a great success.  I’m so happy that we’re all getting more sleep at night!

You’ve changed our lives in so many ways.  I love you more each day.  I enjoy watching your personality develop and, while my opinion may be biased, I think you’re the awesomest person in the whole wide world.  I’m so blessed to be your mama.

All my love,
Mama

Pinterest Recipe Round-up

Since my last few days of blog content have been on the serious side, I wanted to lighten it up today with a few of my favorite recipes that I’ve found on Pinterest.  Pinterest is a major time-suck, but it’s a wonderfully mindless site to visit when you’re looking for relaxation and good ideas.  You can follow my boards here.

Are you on Pinterest?  Leave your link in the comments, and I’d be happy to follow you!

Bacon, Egg and Potato Casserole

 

 

Spicy Chicken Rigatoni

 

 

Bobby’s Lighter Chicken and Rice Casserole

 

 

One-Pot Spaghetti

 

 

Low-Calorie Chocolate Muffins

 

 

Chewy Chocolate Chip Cookies

Be Gentle

“Be Gentle.”  I say these two words to C countless times throughout the day.  I don’t know why I don’t apply them to myself. I’ve only had three appointments with my therapist, but I feel like we’ve covered a lot of ground in a short amount of time.  At my last appointment, we discussed negative thoughts – how to control them, combat them and make them positive.  I realized that I think pretty awful things.  Things I could never (and would never) say to someone else.

My therapist’s words to me?  ”It’s okay to be nice to yourself.”

Whoa.  Lightbulb moment!  Why do we say things to ourselves that we would never utter to someone else?  How can we be happy with ourselves when we berate ourselves?

My challenge now is to recognize these thoughts as they appear and stop them before they envelop me.  My challenge for you today?  Be nice to yourself.  Be gentle.  Treat yourself as you would treat a dear friend.

When Do You Decide To Let Go?

We’ve all had friendships end.  Some end abruptly with an argument, others simply fade.  The ones that fade can be as difficult as the ones that end dramatically.

A couple friendships that I once held dear seem to have faded away.  I don’t know how it happened, and I can’t recall when it started.  I’ve tried to reach out, even when the idea of putting myself out there was terrifying.   I didn’t know what to say or where to start.  A text wasn’t returned.  A Facebook post was ignored.  A birthday gave me the opportunity to leave a voicemail.

I never heard back.  My head knows that it’s time to stop trying to grasp something that’s no longer there.  My heart misses what we once had, and wonders why we’ve gone our separate ways.

Was it when I got married?  Was it when I moved away?  Was it when I had a baby?

Some friendships come and go with big life changes.  I’m trying to tell myself that it’s okay to let go.  It’s important to surround ourselves with people that love, support and uplift us.  Even though some relationships fade, there are new and different ones on the horizon.

Change the Conversation – Be Enough Me Monday

This post is part of a special Be Enough Me Monday link-up called Change the Conversation, by Just. Be. Enough.  

“The mother with PPD.”

“(Hubster’s) wife.”

“(C)’s mama.”

“A stay-at-home mom.”

These are a few of my labels.  They’re all true, but I’m not defined or limited by them.  Who am I?

I am a daughter.

I am a wife.

I am a mother.

I am a friend.

I am quirky.

I am funny.

I am continually learning more about myself.

I am healing.

I’ve been severely bent many times, but have never broken.

I am a fighter.

I am stronger than I think.

I am stronger than you think.

I am scared, but I am trying.

I am vulnerable, even though I vigorously guard myself.

I am an athlete, even though I no longer compete.

I am trustworthy.

I am smart.

I am a writer.

I am a dreamer.

I am a world traveler without a passport.

I am adventurous.

I am changing the conversation.

Who are you?

Comfort Food at Its Finest

Sweatpants, Law & Order: SVU, and Ben & Jerry’s Half-Baked.  I’ve been wallowing a little lately.

Confession: I really want a second baby.
Problem: It’s probably not the right time for us to have baby deuce.

And that makes me sad.  When I’m sad, I wallow.  And when I wallow, I eat Ben & Jerry’s Half-Baked.

Another confession: I can easily consume the whole pint while wallowing.

Heaven in a Pint

Earth Day Cash Giveaway: $500 Prize!

 Earth Day Cash Giveaway

Welcome to the EARTH DAY CASH GIVEAWAY hosted by MamaNYC! I have teamed up with an amazing group of bloggers to bring you a terrific CASH prize! This event runs from April 20-30, 2012 and is open to residents WORLDWIDE! Keep reading below to find out how to enter this giveaway!

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The Socialpunk Trilogy: Excerpt and Giveaway

Monica Leonelle has released Socialpunk, the first part of her Socialpunk Trilogy.  If you enjoy books like Ender’s Game, Neuromancer or The Hunger Games, then you’d likely enjoy Socialpunk!

Monica Leonelle is a well-known digital media strategist and the author of three novels. She blogs at Prose on Fire and shares her writing and social media knowledge with other bloggers and authors through her Free Writer Toolkit.  Below is an excerpt from Socialpunk, available via Amazon or Barnes and Noble.

 A woman with long purple eyelashes, who kind of reminded Ima of a butterfly, brushed by Ima with tattooed art entirely covering both her arms. One of the tattoos started out as a young boy who grew just a little older with each second, until he looked like a man. To Ima’s amazement, the tattoo played like a home video.

Ima looked at Vaughn for explanation. “How—?”

“Pixel skin-grafts,” Vaughn whispered into ima’s ear. “Some people do their entire bodies in them. Doesn’t do much in terms of protection, but lets you change your outfit on a Clout.

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UPrinting Giveaway!

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Meant To Be

If Hubster and I hadn’t met in college, where would we be now?  It’s a question we were pondering yesterday as we marked five years since we officially started dating.

We decided that neither of us would have broken off our prior relationships, because we wouldn’t have met each other and realized how much we “clicked” with someone else.  I would have been in a terribly mismatched marriage, that would likely have ended very badly.  Hubster would have ended up in an equally loveless marriage.

We would have ended up divorced at a relatively young age.  During a chance meeting at the office of the divorce attorney that happened to represent both of us, we would have enchanted each other.

We would have fallen in love anyway, because sometimes people are just meant to be.

soulmates

Another Day, Another Dollar

It’s the beginning of a new week, which means that I have my coupons clipped, scouted the best deals, and sorted lists and coupons by store!

Ready, Set, Save!

I’m so glad that I’m able to contribute to our finances with couponing.  Standing at the checkout and watching my total come down with the scanning of each coupon is an awesome high.  It’s like a game to see what I can get for $1 or less each week. :)

Since Hubster will be without a paycheck between grad school and his professional position (wherever that may be, and when he might start is still TBD), I’m stocking up on all the goods that we will need.  My hope is that groceries will be our only expense during that period of time.  I only need a few more things to complete our list!

Do you coupon?