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Baby Deuce is Here!

I had a premonition that she would arrive before her scheduled date of May 6! We were hoping that she would stay in there until 38 weeks, and she did…by about an hour!

On Saturday, we decided to have a family day at the zoo and the park to celebrate C’s 2nd birthday (more on that this week!). Much to my surprise, I did not experience a single contraction with all of that walking we did. That was really unusual. So what happened later that night shocked me.

At 8:00pm, right after we put C to bed, I started experiencing regular contractions that were 3 minutes apart. They were extremely painful and were accompanied with (TMI alert!) that lovely clear-out-your-system-it’s-go-time diarrhea. Since I’ve had so many regular contractions that end up stopping, I waited until about 9:45pm to call my doctor.

Our lovely babysitter (aka lifesaver!) arrived at 10:30pm to stay with C until my parents were able to get there. They live about two hours from us. Hubster and I headed to the hospital!

We got to the hospital at about 11:00pm. I was 2cm dilated and 60% effaced. Hubster said, “Do you think they’ll send you home?” I looked at him with eyebrows raised and replied, “If this isn’t labor, God help me because I don’t know what is!”

They started prepping me for my c-section at midnight. I started to get a little nervous, remembering my terrible experience last time. They reassured me of some things, like that they wouldn’t put in my catheter until after the anesthesia started to work (last time it was quite painfully done before my epidural kicked in). Unfortunately, I had an interesting little experience during the spinal that made me nervous…

Thankfully, my nurse had my head against her chest and one of her thighs against each of my knees while the anesthesiologist was doing the spinal, because they hit a nerve – twice. Each time, I screamed out and kicked my right leg as I felt what seemed like an electric jolt through my leg. It was so weird, and I started to shake from adrenaline. Apparently it’s relatively common and doesn’t mean I’ll have any effects except for those two jolts; but it was enough to make me a little on edge.

I was more numb during this surgery than my last c-section. Yay! I barely felt a thing except for a little pressure when they were pushing her out. Adrenaline made my teeth chatter throughout the surgery, though. I was freeeeezing. But everything went really well, and my recovery is actually going amazingly better than last time. My entire experience from the moment I arrived at the hospital through my current recovery experience and care has been completely different from last time. It’s so much better that I can’t even compare it!

Baby Deuce, hereby referred to as Baby Jo, was born at 38 weeks on April 28 at 1:13am. She was 6 pounds, 14 ounces and 19 inches long. She is perfectly healthy and so teeny tiny! I think she looks a lot like her brother. :)

Baby Jo 1Baby Jo 2

I’m Relieved About My Repeat C-Section

As I was sitting in C’s room waiting for him to fall asleep, it occurred to me that I am not at all nervous about having this baby. Flashback to two years ago – I was almost panicky thinking about my upcoming birth. I’m slightly shocked that I’m not concerned about this one. My birth with C was quite traumatic and resulted in an emergency c-section. I expected to be a bundle of nerves for any future birth experience.

Quite the opposite, actually. My only concern is that I get to the hospital in time if Baby Deuce is early. I don’t want to end up in a situation where I feel the urge to push, knowing I can’t because my pelvis was too small for C to fit through. Even that lone concern rarely occupies my thoughts.

I’m so relieved that I’m having a repeat c-section. I’ve been asked numerous times why I’ve chosen this method instead of trying for a VBAC. While I could have opted for a VBAC, I am very glad that I didn’t. If I had, I know I would be extremely nervous at this point about having a repeat of my last experience. Chances are very good that it would not have been successful. My c-section is something that I can take comfort in. I know what is going to happen. I’m more in control of my situation than I was the first time, and I take great comfort in that.

Did you opt for a repeat c-section?

Full On Nesting Mode!

Baby Deuce and the ol’ irritable uterus are really putting me through the ringer. For eight hours starting Friday afternoon, I had very painful contractions that were four minutes apart for several hours, then they would become irregular for thirty minutes and go back to four minutes apart. Surprisingly, I wasn’t nervous at all. I’m annoyed and stressed: annoyed that this keeps happening but goes nowhere, and stressed because if the contractions do end up being the real deal then I have so much more on my to-do list before she arrives!

Friday afternoon, I vacuumed, did some laundry, worked and cleaned the bathroom. I didn’t want to end up embarrassed by the state of my dirty bathroom if guests came to watch C!

crib and toddler bedWhen I woke up on Saturday morning with the same four-minutes-apart contractions, I went into full on nesting mode. I did the dishes, washed the newborn pacifiers, unloaded the dishwasher, did some more laundry, filed papers that I’ve been neglecting since we moved (a year ago!), changed the sheets, did some more work and completed some other random tasks that I can’t recall. I think the urgency in my eyes motivated Hubster to set up the pack n play in our bedroom and the crib in C’s room. That required rearranging C’s bedroom furniture. Hubster was on a roll, so he also rearranged furniture in our office.

I don’t think I’ve been this productive in ages. I haven’t had the energy to be this productive in ages. Baby Deuce is frightening me into productivity. I have to say, though, having all of those things finished feels pretty fantastic. Now that we’re as ready for her as we can be, what do you want to bet that she decides not to come until her scheduled arrival? ;)

Baby Deuce: Three Weeks Left!

Busting out of my maternity clothes! My belly is lopsided - Baby Deuce is saying hello to all of you!

I’m busting out of my maternity clothes. My belly is lopsided – Baby Deuce is saying hello to all of you!

How far along? 36 weeks, 1 day

Cravings: Ben & Jerry’s Half Baked Ice Cream, spicy Chinese food

Aversions: All vegetables, eggs, beef

Feeling? I’m so tired! All of the contractions are wearing me out.

What I’m looking forward to: On the plus side, I have three weeks left! Or less! :)

What I miss: Being able to stand without experiencing back and hip pain and being able to turn over in bed without getting out of breath!

What was the BEST part of last week? It was a long week, but we had some nice family time over the weekend!

What was the WORST part of last week? I was woken up at 5:15am yesterday – not from one of my own children, but because someone else’s full-grown child was banging on a window and screaming, “GOOD MORNING, VIETNAAAAM!” Um, really. Then the people who live directly above our bedroom decided to have a dance party or something. *sigh* Campus living and family life sometimes don’t mix so well…!

Milestones: Baby Deuce has dropped, and my belly is noticeably much lower! I find myself in a constant state of feeling the need to pee.

The Irritable Uterus

irritable uterus

Before you laugh, I must tell you that this is a real thing. I only recently heard about it, but yesterday I was told that I have it.

An irritable uterus.

And here I thought I was just an irritable pregnant woman experiencing a ridiculous amount of contractions!

Nope, I have an irritable uterus that apparently contracts with no provocation and the contractions are not making progress toward labor. Considering I’m only 35.5 weeks, that’s probably a good thing; but it’s extremely annoying nonetheless.

Since my preterm labor scare last Thursday, I’ve been experiencing contractions that can be 4 minutes apart for a couple of hours before becoming irregular. I have severe cramping. Most of my contractions take my breath away, and some of them stop me in my tracks – unable to walk or talk (like labor contractions). But no, no progress toward labor here. Just an irritable uterus.

*sigh*

So. Much. Cereal.

The closer I get to the end of this pregnancy, the stronger my food aversions are getting again.  I’m eating more often due to the big ol’ uterus that’s squishing my stomach, but I have very few options of what to eat.

The one thing that always looks good? Cereal. Kix, to be exact. So now I typically have cereal for breakfast, cereal for second lunch (around 2pm) and cereal again for second dinner (before bed).

I think my body might be in for a big shock when I go back to eating wheat-free after having Baby Deuce!

35 Weeks: Contractions, Preparations and C’s Ear Infection

Oops, I forgot to take a picture for this week!  The past week has been pretty interesting.  I’m starting to wonder if Baby Deuce will be ready earlier than her scheduled date of arrival…

Anyway, this week we get to meet the finalists for the next Mamavation Mom campaign, and I can’t wait to see who they are!  Good luck to all of the applicants!

Here’s my update, as I’m now in my 35th week with Baby Deuce:

How far along? 35 weeks

Cravings: Ben & Jerry’s Half Baked Ice Cream

Aversions: All vegetables, eggs, beef

Feeling? On Thursday morning, I experienced two hours of regular contractions that were 4-5 minutes apart and took my breath away.  My doctor told me to come in and shortly after I got hooked up to the monitor, the contractions became irregular.  At 34.5 weeks, I was happy they became irregular…but at the same time, that always makes me feel a little bit silly when the contractions stop being regular as soon as I get to the doctor!  It happened twice with C, but much later (including two days before he was finally born – at 40+ weeks).  I continue to have strong, irregular contractions that take my breath away, as well as loads of mild ones.

What I’m looking forward to: Having this baby!  I hope she stays put for a couple more weeks, but would welcome her gladly if she wants to come before May 6!

What I miss: Being active in any way without contractions.  I can’t even walk to the parking lot without having contractions anymore.

What was the BEST part of last week? Honestly, I don’t know. Last week was kind of rough (see next question).

What was the WORST part of last week? Hubster worked long hours last week while interviewing job candidates, which made it difficult for me to “take it easy,” like the doctor told me to do.  C’s been sick for over two weeks and it turns out he has an ear infection. Poor kiddo!

Milestones: There are only four weeks left until my scheduled c-section. I’m working on getting all of the last-minute preparations done for Baby Deuce’s arrival, considering all of the contractions I’m already experiencing.

This post is sponsored by Color Maker & Mamavation – a community dedicated to obesity prevention & weight loss for women. I’m writing this to be entered into a giveaway.

Call For Guest Posts

Help Wanted

As you may or may not know, I’m going to have a baby on May 6. ;)  Based on my previous experience with a cute, squishy newborn baby, I expect that she’s going to keep me quite busy for a while.  I probably won’t even know what day it is for a couple of weeks.

I’m looking to all of you wonderful people to help me out during those first couple of weeks!  Would you be interested in being featured as a guest blogger here in May?  I welcome guest posts about parenthood, pregnancy, postpartum mood disorders, family life, saving money and pretty much any other ideas that you want to suggest.

My request is that you would need to have your post emailed to me by Friday, April 26.  This will give me enough time to schedule posts and allow time in case Baby Deuce decides to come early.

If you’re interested, you may comment here, find me on Twitter, Facebook, or email me at kristin@littlemamajama.com.

Baby Deuce: 34 Week Update

Baby Deuce 34 Weeks

How far along? 34 weeks, 1 day

Cravings: Strawberries

Aversions: All vegetables, eggs, beef

Feeling? My depression and anxiety are back, and I’m eager for my long-awaited appointment with my psychiatrist today.  I’m also having severe pelvic and pubic bone pain, and a ton of Braxton Hicks contractions.

What I’m looking forward to: One of the cool things about living on campus is the types of educational opportunities that are available.  I volunteered C to participate in the language learning lab on campus!  Tomorrow is his appointment.  Hopefully he cooperates and is a good subject for the students!

What I miss: Being able to move without pain.

What was the BEST part of last week? C went to Nana and Papa’s for a couple of days, so I was able to catch up on some work, get a few full nights of sleep, and Hubster and I were also able to go out on two date nights in a row!

What was the WORST part of last week? Being woken up in the middle of the night by painful contractions, and having a difficult time finding something to wear because my belly is starting to feel whale-like.  BUT…my thighs and butt can still fit into my pre-pregnancy jeans, so go me. ;)

Milestones: My daily countdown is now in the 30s!  We’ll meet little miss Baby Deuce five weeks from today. :)

C and Baby Deuce: Baby Bump Comparisons!

I thought it might be fun to look back at all of the weekly updates I made when I was pregnant with C and compare that pregnancy to my current one.  It was fun to look at the size of my baby bump as each pregnancy progressed!

16 weeks comparison

I clearly started showing much earlier with Baby Deuce than I did with C!

24 weeks comparison

Which bump do you think was bigger at 24 weeks?

32 week comparison

By 32 weeks, I think they evened out; although I might have had a slightly bigger bump with C!

I also think it’s funny that I generally faced the opposite direction for my bump pictures with Baby Deuce!  Have you compared your belly pics from different pregnancies?

Baby Deuce: 32 Week Update

baby deuce 32 weeks

How far along? 32 weeks, 1 day

Cravings: Shortbread Girl Scout Cookies

Aversions: Lots

Feeling? Tired, and apparently it’s obvious. I don’t remember Hubster telling me I was crabby while pregnant with C, but yesterday he told me he’d talk to me after my nap when I wouldn’t be crabby. Oops!

What I’m looking forward to: There are exactly 7 weeks left until Baby Deuce arrives!  49 days!

What I miss: Vegetables, long walks outside in temperatures above freezing.

What was the BEST part of last week? We went to visit Hubster’s family on Saturday, and we picked out a bunch of C’s cousins’ clothes for Baby Deuce to borrow!  It was good to see them, especially considering I don’t think I’ll be game for another 4-hour round trip before Baby Deuce arrives.  We’re also so thankful they’re loaning us baby clothes!

What was the WORST part of last week? Hubster had his stent removed from his bile duct on Friday.  This was actually a really good thing, because everything looks clear now and this whole gallbladder thing should be behind him now!

Milestones: 49 Days Left! When I put it that way, it seems manageable now. I cannot wait to trade this hyperemesis in for a BABY.

Baby Deuce: 30 Week Update

Baby Deuce 30 wks

Do I look tired?! ;)

How far along? 30 weeks, 2 days

Cravings: Nothing in particular, but I have been consuming a lot of Chobani.  Peach and strawberry banana are my two favorites right now.

Aversions: We’re just going to skip this one, because the list would be long and obnoxious.

Feeling? Tired.  Large.  I go back and forth between thinking, “Whoa, we’re going to have another CHILD here in just 9 weeks!” and thinking, “OMG NINE LONG WEEKS, I’M NEVER GOING TO SURVIVE UNTIL THEN!”

What I’m looking forward to: Sunshine, walks outdoors with my kiddos, feeling less like a balloon and more like a human.

What I miss: Vegetables, being able to turn over in bed without getting out of breath, working out.

What was the BEST part of last week? While Hubster was away at a hiring conference for work, my mom came to visit and help me out with C.  It was such a huge help, because I’m so darn tired these days!

What was the WORST part of last week? Hubster was super busy last week and we barely saw him.  I’m excited that things are settling down a little bit at work for him this week, so we should be able to spend a little more time with him.

Milestones: My c-section is scheduled for May 6th at 7:00am, which is precisely one week after C’s birthday and, coincidentally, he was born at 7:11am.  I wonder how close to being exactly one week apart these two will be!

Our 30-week picture attempt fail!

Our 30-week picture attempt fail!