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And…He’s “Underweight” Again

C turned 18 months this week (update on that to come!), and that means he had to go to the doctor for his 18-month well-child visit.  It went…okay.

He’s weighing in at just under 20 pounds and has dropped back into the 5th percentile for weight.  The doctor recommended we see a nutritionist to talk about strategies to get him to eat more calories and/or types of food.

I’m frustrated.  With several things.

1. I chase after the boy with food all day long.  He has very little interest in eating.  He’s always been that way!  He’d rather be running, climbing, investigating…anything but eating.  It’s like he doesn’t have time to slow down and eat.

2. He is so damn picky.  He refuses to eat any type of vegetable.  He refuses 95% of the meals I make.  The only things he really loves are yogurt, applesauce, peanut butter & jelly sandwiches, and macaroni & cheese.  But sometimes he won’t even eat that.

3. Yes, I know that drinking milk would give him more calories.  He hates milk.  Yes, he might drink a little once in a while and make everyone believe that mama’s a liar, but in reality at home he will never ever drink milk.

4. I try so.hard. to get this boy to eat food.  Most days, I am literally exhausted by trying to get him to eat.  Quantity, quality and variety.  It’s exhausting chasing after a child or begging a child to please eat some damn food so that he can grow.  I’m sick of the battle.  Why can’t this be easy?  Just once, just one day.

So we’re going to see a nutritionist on the 20th to have a little discussion about my child’s eating habits and underweight-ness.

In other news, I had to schedule C’s 24-month appointment as well.  I may or may not have hyperventilated a little when they wanted to schedule it in the beginning of May and I realized that I will be having Baby Deuce in the beginning of May.  That’s only six months from now.  Oh Lordy, how will I manage a newborn and chasing after a toddler who refuses to eat?  Someone hold me!!!

C’s Trying Some Vegetables!

Eating vegetables may not be news for some children, but for C – it’s enough to cheer about.  :)

Yesterday, he ate about 1/4 cup of my homemade salsa (yay for tomatoes and green pepper!).  Today, he ate a few slices of cucumber from the cucumber salad I made.

He was a really good boy for me while I chopped a bunch of veggies and tossed them into the slow cooker for tonight.  I’m making a tomato-based meat sauce with zucchini, eggplant and a little green pepper.  I’m hoping C will eat some of those veggies since they’ll be hidden in tomato sauce. ;)

Hooray!

 

The Challenge of Mealtime

Sometimes I find myself jealous of parents whose kids eat whatever they put in front of them; or, in general, parents whose kids eat.  Mealtime in our home is a challenge, to say the least.

C has always been very picky.  He has always been more interested in playing than in eating.  Now that he’s a toddler and can run, throw, writhe and yell…

*sigh*

Eating seems like such an inconvenience to him.  He’ll only sit in his booster seat for a short amount of time.  He eats better on the run, but it’s so frustrating chasing him around with a plate of food.  I feel like I spend the better part of the day with a plate or bowl in hand, running after a 2-foot-tall person who has so many other things to do but pay attention to me as I try to shove food at him.

Some nights when I put him in the bathtub, I stress out over the fact that his ribs stick out.  I try to remind myself that he was in the 6th percentile of weight at his 15-month appointment last month.  He had been in the 5th percentile for about six months prior to that, so that 6th percentile news was quite exciting for me.  He’s small, but he’s growing.  It’s just so hard not to stress about it.

I see other children his age who have at least 5 pounds on him.  I see other children his age who love to eat, or simply do so without running the other way.  If he was in a higher weight percentile and ran away at mealtime, I would be less concerned.

I wish it was easier.  I wish I didn’t have to worry about it.

How Do I Get My Son to Stop Throwing Food?

C throws food on the floor.  All the time.  He’s done this for many, many months and I have yet to find an effective way to get him to stop.

Things that have been suggested to me?

Take his food away.  Tried it.  He could care less!

Scold him.  Tried it.  He cries for about 10 seconds, but then reverts back to throwing food.

Take his food away, then scold him.  Again, I’ve done this numerous times.  He really doesn’t care about his lost calories, nor does he care about the scolding.

Don’t put food in front of him, just feed everything to him.  How does this one encourage his independence?

What other options do I have?!  HELP!

Hunger?

I thought pregnancy – especially the 3rd trimester – brought a flurry of hunger?!  I almost wish that I felt hungry, because I don’t think I’m getting the recommended caloric intake.  I’m just never really hungry.  Most of the time I force myself to eat.  Tonight, I ended up getting lightheaded and realized that hypoglycemia was setting in.

Argh.